Authenticity
Accelerating achievement through truth
Living true to ourselves and to our word sounds right and yet doing so can be a major challenge. Authenticity, however, is not just a moral imperative but a skill. We explore how a well-told truth creates connection and turns conflict into useful intelligence. As you explore the concept of authenticity, what questions does it raise or insights does it provoke about your leadership practice?
Practicing Authenticity
True authenticity is based upon curiosity rather than certainty. If we’re truly being authentic with one another we’re learning every moment so that we’re constantly adjusting. Authenticity is about correction not perfection. Authentic leadership is actually evoking differences and different points of view. To grow in your leadership abilities you really need to surround yourself with people who think and act differently than you. Give them a voice and learn from the differences between you.
Practices
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Authenticity Practice #1: Chart a conversation
Use the Conversation Meter recognize the decelerators and the accelerators in conversations.
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Authenticity Practice #2: From self-deceived to self-aware
Elevate self-awareness, and therefore conversational quality, by noticing your own behavior and opinions more acutely.
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Authenticity Practice #3: The Giraffe Award
Who has really stuck their neck out? Offer them recognition, and ignite community.
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Authenticity Practice #4: Separating fact from explanation
Get vigilant about separating facts from explanations using an unsolved problem or difficult situation from your own vitality imperative.
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Authenticity Practice #5: Performing bias-ectomy
Diversify your teams and listen closely to shatter biased thinking and deciding.
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Authenticity Practice #6: Comparing explanations for contribution to purpose
Listing explanations can illuminate our purpose in a new creative light.
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Authenticity Practice #7: Storytelling
To accelerate impact, develop, prepare, and share stories that feature relevant surprise.
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Barbara Jordan and fact-based inquiry
A freshman congresswoman during the Watergate scandal provides an example of how authenticity accelerates solution, and how aligning people to purpose leads to honest, healthy debate as well as better decisions.
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Four key skills for increasing authenticity
Increase authenticity by cultivating skills such as telling powerful purpose-driven stories and reducing unintended bias.
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Performing a Bias-ectomy
Wikipedia lists over 100 examples of biases that make our perceptions inaccurate and decision making irrational. There is no surgery to remove bias, but there is a remedy.
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The Conversation Meter
The Conversation Meter is a powerful tool for improving the quality of every interaction, and a key resource for increasing authenticity.